Oct. 29th, 2010

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And it's come to that time of year again. The Annual Fall Friend's List Clean Up!

Have we grown apart? Do we no longer talk? Have our fandom interests diverged and as a result, our chats in comments and on AIM stopped?

It's cool. We all grow and sometimes, our paths stop crossing. Anyone who wishes to defriend me has utter amnesty to do so. There will be no drama, no whining, no BAWWW'ing over it.

Honestly, I'm not on LJ as much as I used to be, and when I do check in? My page is overwhelming, trying to catch up with friends and family. And since I have so little in common with some of you, it's time to prune the list to make it more manageable.

It's not you, it's me. I don't have the time to chase after people, remind them I exist, force them into friendships they're not interested in maintaining. I'm also, frankly, not interested in the minutia of new, shiny fandoms many folks have moved on to and it's all they talk about now. Just like I am -sure- some of you are sick of my health issues or hearing about my dogs.

I'm not going to demand you filter your entries or anything stupid. That's just entitled bitchism! I feel we honestly don't have enough in common anymore to keep being LJ friends.

So if you find, suddenly, you're off the list, please. Don't be offended. I'm simply making my life easier by cutting down on the deluge of posts.

I truly have valued our time together, we've had some great times and made beautiful pixel memories.

This post is being left unlocked and comments enabled so if you feel you were removed in error, you can let me know. I'm not infallible, (noooo, really?!) and will likely click a couple names I shouldn't.

<3 to you all!


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